Friday, December 02, 2011

23 days to Christmas...and I'm not feeling well

So much has been happening the past few weeks, planning for J's bridal shower, visiting relatives from several countries, getting ready for JJD's departure to the US( transfer of work for the 4 months she won't be here), etc etc.

Have been more tired and stressed lately, I think it might be because we sleep late and there's just to much to do. Right now, I'm sick at home. Got sick starting last Wednesday night. Kept throwing up and had a bit of diarrhea yesterday, with a slight fever. Feel a bit better today, but still don't feel like eating. It actually felt like I was having an eating disorder. Imagine me eating just one piece of Skyflakes for dinner last night. Unimaginable, right? I couldn't believe it myself. I just didn't want to eat anything for fear that I'd throw up again.

During the two days I'm here at home, I just realized what qualities a leader should have, and all thanks to one of my officemates that kept on calling me.
1. A leader shouldn't ask "Pano na?", moreso if your supposed to be my boss, a leader should say "What are our options?" or "Let's do this."
2. A leader should treat you staff more compassionately, and never just to show off to others or higher management.

It's probably my headache talking, but I'm really mad at people who blame others when something goes wrong, and even more when people act all goody goody in front of the boss, but turn a good 180 degrees when the boss goes away. Keep it real.